What Father’s Day and Trinity Sunday Teach Us About Love and Relationship

What’s the best human relationship you’ve ever had? Maybe it was with a partner, parent, grandparent, child, sibling—or that one friend who always seems to understand you perfectly. Pause for a moment. Think of that person. Feel that connection.

This year, two special days overlap: Father’s Day and Trinity Sunday. One is secular, one is sacred, but both invite us to reflect on the nature of love, connection, and family.

The Trinity: A Divine Model of Perfect Relationship

The Christian doctrine of the Trinity describes God as three persons—Father, Son, and Holy Spirit—in one divine being. It’s not just theology; it’s a vision of perfect relationship. Each person of the Trinity is distinct, yet united. There’s no hierarchy, no domination—only mutual love, respect, and giving.

It’s a powerful image, especially on a day when many are thinking about their fathers or father figures. Whether your own experience of fatherhood has been positive or painful, the Trinity offers a model of what loving relationship can and should be: supportive, generous, equal, and life-giving.

Living Out the Trinity

Trinity Sunday marks the beginning of “Ordinary Time” in the church calendar—a season focused not on festivals, but on everyday faith and growth. And in today’s Gospel, Jesus promises the gift of the Holy Spirit, the divine presence that connects us with God and each other.

In Paul’s letter to the Romans, we’re reminded that through faith in Jesus, we receive peace, grace, hope, and the love of God poured into our hearts by the Holy Spirit. This isn’t just theology—it’s a call to action. To love. To connect. To live differently.

The Trinity and Our Human Relationships

So how does the Trinity speak to our own relationships?

In a world where relationships can be strained, broken, or transactional, the Trinity shows us a better way. Each person of the Trinity brings something essential to the whole. No one dominates; each seeks to uplift the other. There’s respect, harmony, and generosity at the core.

Imagine what our families, churches, and communities might look like if we lived that way.

Who Do You Connect With Most?

Which person of the Trinity do you feel most drawn to?

  • God the Father, who is loving, generous, and slow to anger.
  • Jesus the Son, who calls us to forgiveness, change, and closeness with God.
  • The Holy Spirit, who stirs us to live with love, justice, and compassion.

Each invites us into deeper relationship—with God, and with each other.

A Closing Thought

On this Trinity Sunday and Father’s Day, may we be reminded that the love of God isn’t distant or abstract—it’s relational, practical, and deeply personal.

May we reflect that love in our own lives. In our families. In our friendships. In how we treat the stranger.

Let’s be people who embody the unity, generosity, and grace of the Trinity in everything we do. Amen.

Revd Julia Lall

The Spirit That Breathes Life: A Pentecost Reflection

Readings: Acts 2:1–21; John 14:8–17, 25–27

Today, we celebrate Pentecost — the great feast of the Holy Spirit. It’s a day that comes 50 days after Easter, and it marks a key event in the Church’s life. It might also be a deeply personal and key moment for us., because Pentecost reminds us that we are children of God, adopted into God’s family through the Spirit. Paul writes in Romans that when we cry “Abba, Father,” it’s the Holy Spirit within us crying out. This Spirit helps us in our weakness and even prays on our behalf when we cannot find the words.

Across every nation, language, and culture, the Spirit is uniting God’s people. Our many voices are brought together in one voice — the voice of the gospel of peace.


A Festival Rooted in History

Pentecost didn’t begin with the disciples. Originally, it was a Jewish harvest festival. Pilgrims travelled to Jerusalem to offer the first fruits of their crops. The city would be alive with music, celebration, and the joyful chaos of new wine and community gathering.

So when the disciples began to speak in many languages that morning, it’s no surprise some thought they were drunk! But this time, God was doing something new. With wind and fire, the Holy Spirit arrived not just to dazzle — but to transform.

What happened in Jerusalem that day wasn’t just a spectacle. It was the birth of the Church, and the Spirit that moved then still moves today.


Who Is the Holy Spirit?

Let’s explore what today’s readings reveal about the Holy Spirit — and what that means for us now.

1. Presence

The Holy Spirit is God’s living presence in the world. We first meet this Spirit in Genesis, hovering over the chaos before creation — bringing light and order. That same Spirit still brings life where there is emptiness.

2. Breath

The Hebrew word for spirit is Ruach, meaning breath or wind. It’s the breath of life God gives to Adam, and it’s the same breath Jesus breathes onto his disciples after the resurrection, saying, “Receive the Holy Spirit.”

And how we need that breath now. In a world overwhelmed by conflict, environmental crisis, and despair, the Spirit breathes hope and resilience. It reminds us that we are not alone — we are not abandoned.

3. Gentleness

The Spirit also comes gently. When Jesus is baptized, the Spirit descends like a dove — a sign of peace and healing. The Spirit comforts us in sorrow and brings reconciliation where there’s division. This is the “Comforter” Jesus promised — not just a fleeting presence, but one who stays.

4. Power

Yet the Spirit is also power — the kind that fuelled the first disciples to speak boldly and share the gospel in ways they never could on their own. That same Spirit gives us strength today: strength to face fear, speak truth, and live with courage.

5. Wisdom

The Spirit is our Advocate and guide. Jesus said this Spirit would teach us all things and lead us into all truth — not just “my truth” or “your truth,” but the truth. The truth that forgives, that liberates, that humbles.

This wisdom helps us discern God’s will for us, especially when the way ahead isn’t clear.


Still Speaking, Still Moving

The Spirit didn’t stop at Pentecost. It still comes — maybe not always with wind and fire, but with a whisper, a gentle tug at the heart, a nudge we can’t ignore.

As Psalm 104 says: “When you send forth your Spirit, they are created, and you renew the face of the earth.” This isn’t just poetic — it’s a promise. The Spirit is always renewing. Always inviting us to begin again.

So this Pentecost, let’s be open. Let’s allow the Spirit to fill us — with peace, with courage, with life. The world may feel uncertain, even broken, but this isn’t the end. It’s a new beginning.

Amen.

Revd Julia Lall

Why the Ascension Still Matters Today

By Revd Julia Lall

Last Sunday of Eastertide — A Time Between

As the Easter season ends and Pentecost approaches, we find ourselves in a unique spiritual space—waiting, wondering, maybe even forgetting one crucial piece:  Ascension Day.

Though often overlooked, the Ascension of Jesus is foundational to our faith. We proclaim it in the Nicene Creed every week:
“He ascended into heaven and is seated at the right hand of the Father…”
But how often do we really pause to reflect on what that means?

What Is the Ascension Really About?

Ascension Day marks the moment, 40 days after the Resurrection, when Jesus returned to the Father. But this isn’t about Jesus “leaving” us.
It’s about completion, glory, and a new closeness with God.
In John 17, we see Jesus praying for His followers—then, and now. He’s preparing them for what’s coming. It’s a deeply personal, emotional prayer. One filled with love and concern.

Why It Still Matters

The Jesus who ascended into heaven is the same Jesus who walked dusty roads, healed the sick, cried with friends, and felt abandoned on the cross.
He knows what it means to be human. He knows what it means to hurt. And He prays for us still.
“Holy Father, protect them…” (John 17:11)
The Ascended Christ isn’t distant or detached. He stands with the hurting. He comforts the refugee, the caregiver, the grieving parent, the anxious heart.
All of our human experience is now held in heaven—with love.

So What Do We Do?

As we wait between Ascension and Pentecost, we’re not meant to be idle. We’re invited into three practices:

1. Pray

We’re in the middle of Thy Kingdom Come, a global prayer movement encouraging Christians to pray for five people who don’t yet know Jesus. Who are your five?

This year’s theme focuses on the Lord’s Prayer, a powerful reminder that God is both holy and intimately close—our Father.

2. Share

Jesus’ followers became apostles—messengers sent to carry His love into the world. We’re called to do the same. Whether through words, kindness, or service, our lives can tell the story of Jesus.

3. Stand Firm

The world is hurting. But we are not alone. The risen and ascended Christ walks with us. Even now.

Looking Ahead to Pentecost

In this in-between space, may we hold on to hope.
May we rejoice that heaven’s glory is united with earth’s suffering—and that Jesus stands in the middle, praying for us.
“And remember, I am with you always, to the end of the age.” — Matthew 28:20