What’s the best human relationship you’ve ever had? Maybe it was with a partner, parent, grandparent, child, sibling—or that one friend who always seems to understand you perfectly. Pause for a moment. Think of that person. Feel that connection.
This year, two special days overlap: Father’s Day and Trinity Sunday. One is secular, one is sacred, but both invite us to reflect on the nature of love, connection, and family.
The Trinity: A Divine Model of Perfect Relationship
The Christian doctrine of the Trinity describes God as three persons—Father, Son, and Holy Spirit—in one divine being. It’s not just theology; it’s a vision of perfect relationship. Each person of the Trinity is distinct, yet united. There’s no hierarchy, no domination—only mutual love, respect, and giving.
It’s a powerful image, especially on a day when many are thinking about their fathers or father figures. Whether your own experience of fatherhood has been positive or painful, the Trinity offers a model of what loving relationship can and should be: supportive, generous, equal, and life-giving.
Living Out the Trinity
Trinity Sunday marks the beginning of “Ordinary Time” in the church calendar—a season focused not on festivals, but on everyday faith and growth. And in today’s Gospel, Jesus promises the gift of the Holy Spirit, the divine presence that connects us with God and each other.
In Paul’s letter to the Romans, we’re reminded that through faith in Jesus, we receive peace, grace, hope, and the love of God poured into our hearts by the Holy Spirit. This isn’t just theology—it’s a call to action. To love. To connect. To live differently.
The Trinity and Our Human Relationships
So how does the Trinity speak to our own relationships?
In a world where relationships can be strained, broken, or transactional, the Trinity shows us a better way. Each person of the Trinity brings something essential to the whole. No one dominates; each seeks to uplift the other. There’s respect, harmony, and generosity at the core.
Imagine what our families, churches, and communities might look like if we lived that way.
Who Do You Connect With Most?
Which person of the Trinity do you feel most drawn to?
- God the Father, who is loving, generous, and slow to anger.
- Jesus the Son, who calls us to forgiveness, change, and closeness with God.
- The Holy Spirit, who stirs us to live with love, justice, and compassion.
Each invites us into deeper relationship—with God, and with each other.
A Closing Thought
On this Trinity Sunday and Father’s Day, may we be reminded that the love of God isn’t distant or abstract—it’s relational, practical, and deeply personal.
May we reflect that love in our own lives. In our families. In our friendships. In how we treat the stranger.
Let’s be people who embody the unity, generosity, and grace of the Trinity in everything we do. Amen.
Revd Julia Lall